There are some things which injure those who receive them, things which it is not a benefit to give but to
withhold1; we should therefore consider the usefulness of our gift rather than the wish of the
petitioner2 to receive it; for we often long for hurtful things, and are unable to discern how ruinous they are, because our
judgment3 is
biassed4 by our feelings; when, however, the
longing5 is past, when that
frenzied6 impulse which masters our good sense has passed away, we
abhor7 those who have given us hurtful gifts. As we refuse cold water to the sick, or swords to the grief-stricken or
remorseful8, and take from the insane whatever they might in their
delirium9 use to their own destruction, so must we persist in refusing to give anything whatever that is hurtful, although our friends earnestly and
humbly10,
nay11, sometimes even most piteously beg for it. We ought to look at the end of our benefits as well as the beginning, and not merely to give what men are glad to receive, but what they will hereafter be glad to have received. There are many who say, “I know that this will do him no good, but what am I to do? he begs for it, I cannot withstand his
entreaties12. Let him see to it; he will blame himself, not me.” Not so: you he will blame, and deservedly; when he comes to his right mind, when the
frenzy13 which now excites him has left him, how can he help hating the man who has assisted him to harm and to endanger himself? It is a cruel kindness to allow one’s self to be won over into granting that which injures those who beg for it. Just as it is the noblest of acts to save men from harm against their will, so it is but
hatred14, under the mask of civility, to grant what is harmful to those who ask for it. Let us confer benefits of such a kind, that the more they are made use of the better they please, and which never can turn into injuries. I never will give money to a man if I know that he will pay it to an adulteress, nor will I be found in connexion with any wicked act or plan; if possible, I will restrain men from crime; if not, at least I will never assist them in it. Whether my friend be driven into doing wrong by anger, or
seduced15 from the path of safety by the heat of ambition, he shall never gain the means of doing
mischief16 except from himself, nor will I enable him one day to say, “He ruined me out of love for me.” Our friends often give us what our enemies wish us to receive; we are driven by the unseasonable fondness of the former into the ruin which the latter hope will befall us. Yet, often as it is the case, what can be more
shameful17 than that there should be no difference between a benefit and hatred?
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withhold
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v.拒绝,不给;使停止,阻挡 |
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- It was unscrupulous of their lawyer to withhold evidence.他们的律师隐瞒证据是不道德的。
- I couldn't withhold giving some loose to my indignation.我忍不住要发泄一点我的愤怒。
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petitioner
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n.请愿人 |
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- The judge awarded the costs of the case to the petitioners.法官判定由这起案件的上诉人支付诉讼费用。
- The petitioner ask for a variation in her maintenance order.上诉人要求对她生活费的命令的条件进行变更。
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judgment
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n.审判;判断力,识别力,看法,意见 |
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- The chairman flatters himself on his judgment of people.主席自认为他审视人比别人高明。
- He's a man of excellent judgment.他眼力过人。
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longing
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n.(for)渴望 |
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- Hearing the tune again sent waves of longing through her.再次听到那首曲子使她胸中充满了渴望。
- His heart burned with longing for revenge.他心中燃烧着急欲复仇的怒火。
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frenzied
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a.激怒的;疯狂的 |
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- Will this push him too far and lead to a frenzied attack? 这会不会逼他太甚,导致他进行疯狂的进攻?
- Two teenagers carried out a frenzied attack on a local shopkeeper. 两名十几岁的少年对当地的一个店主进行了疯狂的袭击。
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abhor
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v.憎恶;痛恨 |
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- They abhor all forms of racial discrimination.他们憎恶任何形式的种族歧视。
- They abhor all the nations who have different ideology and regime.他们仇视所有意识形态和制度与他们不同的国家。
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remorseful
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adj.悔恨的 |
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- He represented to the court that the accused was very remorseful.他代被告向法庭陈情说被告十分懊悔。
- The minister well knew--subtle,but remorseful hypocrite that he was!牧师深知这一切——他是一个多么难以捉摸又懊悔不迭的伪君子啊!
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delirium
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n. 神智昏迷,说胡话;极度兴奋 |
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- In her delirium, she had fallen to the floor several times. 她在神志不清的状态下几次摔倒在地上。
- For the next nine months, Job was in constant delirium.接下来的九个月,约伯处于持续精神错乱的状态。
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humbly
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adv. 恭顺地,谦卑地 |
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- We humbly beg Your Majesty to show mercy. 我们恳请陛下发发慈悲。
- "You must be right, Sir,'said John humbly. “你一定是对的,先生,”约翰恭顺地说道。
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nay
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adv.不;n.反对票,投反对票者 |
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- He was grateful for and proud of his son's remarkable,nay,unique performance.他为儿子出色的,不,应该是独一无二的表演心怀感激和骄傲。
- Long essays,nay,whole books have been written on this.许多长篇大论的文章,不,应该说是整部整部的书都是关于这件事的。
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entreaties
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n.恳求,乞求( entreaty的名词复数 ) |
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- He began with entreaties and ended with a threat. 他先是恳求,最后是威胁。 来自《简明英汉词典》
- The tyrant was deaf to the entreaties of the slaves. 暴君听不到奴隶们的哀鸣。 来自《简明英汉词典》
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frenzy
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n.疯狂,狂热,极度的激动 |
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- He was able to work the young students up into a frenzy.他能激起青年学生的狂热。
- They were singing in a frenzy of joy.他们欣喜若狂地高声歌唱。
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hatred
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n.憎恶,憎恨,仇恨 |
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- He looked at me with hatred in his eyes.他以憎恨的眼光望着我。
- The old man was seized with burning hatred for the fascists.老人对法西斯主义者充满了仇恨。
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seduced
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诱奸( seduce的过去式和过去分词 ); 勾引; 诱使堕落; 使入迷 |
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- The promise of huge profits seduced him into parting with his money. 高额利润的许诺诱使他把钱出了手。
- His doctrines have seduced many into error. 他的学说把许多人诱入歧途。
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mischief
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n.损害,伤害,危害;恶作剧,捣蛋,胡闹 |
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- Nobody took notice of the mischief of the matter. 没有人注意到这件事情所带来的危害。
- He seems to intend mischief.看来他想捣蛋。
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shameful
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adj.可耻的,不道德的 |
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- It is very shameful of him to show off.他向人炫耀自己,真不害臊。
- We must expose this shameful activity to the newspapers.我们一定要向报社揭露这一无耻行径。
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