The appearance of this man somewhat discouraged me. My first thought concerning him was that a man who seemed to be so thoroughly3 alive was not likely to prove a good listener. But after I had had a talk with him I determined4 to give him a trial. Of one thing I was satisfied: he would keep awake. He was a man of cheerful aspect; alert in motion, glance, and speech. His age was about forty; he was of medium size, a little inclined to be stout5, and his face, upon which he wore no hair, was somewhat ruddy. In dress he was neat and proper, and he had an air of friendly deference6, which seemed to me to suit the position I wished him to fill.
He spoke7 of himself and his qualifications with tact8, if not with modesty9, and rated very highly his ability to serve me as a listener; but he did so in a manner intended to convince me that he was not boasting, but stating facts which it was necessary I should know. His experience had been varied10: he had acted as a tutor, a traveling companion, a confidential11 clerk, a collector of information for technical writers, and in other capacities requiring facility of adaptation to exigencies12. At present he was engaged in making a catalogue for a collector of prints, whose treasures, in the course of years, had increased to such an extent that it was impossible for him to remember what his long rows of portfolios13 contained. The collector was not willing that work among his engravings should be done by artificial light, and, as the evenings of my visitor were therefore disengaged, he said he should be glad to occupy them in a manner which would not only be profitable to him, but, he was quite sure, would be very interesting.
The man's name was Chester Walkirk, and I engaged him to come to me every evening, as my first listener had done.
I began my discourses14 with Walkirk with much less confidence and pleasurable anticipation15 than I had felt with regard to the quiet, unassuming elderly person who had been my first listener, and whom I had supposed to be a very model of receptivity. The new man I feared would demand more,—if not by word, at least by manner. He would be more like an audience; I should find myself striving to please him, and I could not feel careless whether he liked what I said or not.
But by the middle of the first evening all my fears and doubts in regard to Walkirk had disappeared. He proved to be an exceptionally good listener. As I spoke, he heard me with attention and evident interest; and this he showed by occasional remarks, which he took care should never be interruptions. These interpolations were managed with much tact; sometimes they were in the form of questions, which reminded me of something I had intended to say, but had omitted, which led me to speak further upon the subject, perhaps on some other phase of it. Now and then, by the expression on his countenance16, or by a word or two, he showed interest, gratification, astonishment17, or some other appropriate sentiment.
When I stopped speaking, he would sit quietly and muse18 upon what I had been saying; or, if he thought me not too deeply absorbed in reflection, would ask a question, or say something relative to the subject in hand, which would give me the opportunity of making some remarks which it gratified me to know that he wanted to hear.
I could not help feeling that I talked better to Walkirk than I had ever done to any one else; and I did not hesitate to admit to myself that this gratifying result was due in great part to his ability as a listener. I do not say that he drew me out, but he gave me opportunities to show myself in the broadest and best lights. This truly might be said to be good listening; it produced good speech.
Day after day I became better and better satisfied with Chester Walkirk, and it is seldom that I have enjoyed myself more than in talking to him. I am sure that it gave me more actual pleasure to tell him what I had seen and what I had done than I had felt in seeing and doing those things. This may appear odd, but it is a fact. I readily revived in myself the emotions that accompanied my experiences, and to these recalled emotions was added the sympathetic interest of another.
In other ways Walkirk won my favor. He was good-natured and intelligent, and showed that he was anxious to please me not only as a listener, but as a companion, or, I might better say, as an associate inmate19 of my study. What he did not know in this respect he set himself diligently20 to learn.
点击收听单词发音
1 applicants | |
申请人,求职人( applicant的名词复数 ) | |
参考例句: |
|
|
2 promptly | |
adv.及时地,敏捷地 | |
参考例句: |
|
|
3 thoroughly | |
adv.完全地,彻底地,十足地 | |
参考例句: |
|
|
4 determined | |
adj.坚定的;有决心的 | |
参考例句: |
|
|
6 deference | |
n.尊重,顺从;敬意 | |
参考例句: |
|
|
7 spoke | |
n.(车轮的)辐条;轮辐;破坏某人的计划;阻挠某人的行动 v.讲,谈(speak的过去式);说;演说;从某种观点来说 | |
参考例句: |
|
|
8 tact | |
n.机敏,圆滑,得体 | |
参考例句: |
|
|
9 modesty | |
n.谦逊,虚心,端庄,稳重,羞怯,朴素 | |
参考例句: |
|
|
10 varied | |
adj.多样的,多变化的 | |
参考例句: |
|
|
11 confidential | |
adj.秘(机)密的,表示信任的,担任机密工作的 | |
参考例句: |
|
|
12 exigencies | |
n.急切需要 | |
参考例句: |
|
|
13 portfolios | |
n.投资组合( portfolio的名词复数 );(保险)业务量;(公司或机构提供的)系列产品;纸夹 | |
参考例句: |
|
|
14 discourses | |
论文( discourse的名词复数 ); 演说; 讲道; 话语 | |
参考例句: |
|
|
15 anticipation | |
n.预期,预料,期望 | |
参考例句: |
|
|
16 countenance | |
n.脸色,面容;面部表情;vt.支持,赞同 | |
参考例句: |
|
|
17 astonishment | |
n.惊奇,惊异 | |
参考例句: |
|
|
18 muse | |
n.缪斯(希腊神话中的女神),创作灵感 | |
参考例句: |
|
|
19 inmate | |
n.被收容者;(房屋等的)居住人;住院人 | |
参考例句: |
|
|
20 diligently | |
ad.industriously;carefully | |
参考例句: |
|
|
欢迎访问英文小说网 |