“How can I overcome the lazy habit of oversleeping in the morning—laziness in general, in fact?
“How can I overcome the fear and worry habit?
“How can I ‘let go’ of the thoughts of past disappointments, mistakes, etc? I have tried all manner of ways to divert my mind by work and study.
“Do you believe in confession1, in the case of a non-Catholic, for the purpose of relieving the mind?
Rather a stiff task, to answer all these questions. Of course, I cannot “answer” them fully3. All I or any one can do is to give a few hints which may be useful.
Oversleeping is not necessarily laziness. Go to bed earlier, if you have to rise at a certain hour. It’s a safe rule to take all the sleep you can get. The rule in my own family is, “Let the sleepy sleep.”
Laziness is not a bad quality always. A lazy body often houses a most energetic mind. The real cure for physical laziness is fun; find some form of exercise that lures4 you. Mental laziness is a more difficult disease, and you can only cure it by taking yourself severely5 in hand. Usually, I should say, it is hopeless.
Fear can generally be mitigated6, if not 58 altogether removed, by intelligence. It is a by-product7 of ignorance, as a rule. We are afraid of what we don’t know. Science (knowledge) has done much to alleviate8 superstition9 (ignorance).
Worry can only be remedied by adopting some rational theory of life, some common-sense philosophy. Maeterlinck and Emerson have done me more good, as worry-antidotes, than any other masters.
How to “let go” of bedevilling thoughts is a hard problem. Thoughts that burn, stew10, ferment11, and torment—who has not suffered from them? About all I can do is to let them run their course. I say, “This too shall pass!” and try to bear up against the pestiferous imaginings and memories until they wear themselves out.
It is also a good idea to have some attractive, interesting, fascinating vision, of a 59 pleasant nature, to which we can turn our minds when annoying suggestions persist. The author of “Alice in Wonderland” (who was a great mathematician) used to work out geometrical tasks, which he called “pillow problems” (and wrote a book of that name), to get himself to sleep. Can’t you find some alluring12 things to think of when wooing slumber13? Call for them, and by and by they will come.
Do I believe in confession? Nothing can so purge14 the soul. Still, it must be exercised with the extremest care, judgment15, and discretion16, else you may harm others in pacifying17 yourself.
“How can I overcome prejudices against such and such sects or races?” Just repeat over and over to yourself that all prejudice is stupid and ignorant. By and by you will, by auto-suggestion, get it into your subconsciousness18 60 that prejudice shall have no place in you.
Prejudice means “judging before” you have the facts. Never judge till after you have the facts.
Nothing is so utterly19 devoid20 of reason as a passionate21 hatred22 of any race or class. All men are much the same when you come to know them. Class or race faults are superficial. The human qualities strike deep.
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n.自白,供认,承认 | |
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吸引力,魅力(lure的复数形式) | |
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adv.严格地;严厉地;非常恶劣地 | |
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使(某人)安静( pacify的现在分词 ); 息怒; 抚慰; 在(有战争的地区、国家等)实现和平 | |
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