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When Nancy and I decided to get married, I suddenly felt inspired to write a whole new set of marriage vows.
I know.
And Nancy joined me. She agreed that we couldn’t possibly exchange the vows that had become “traditional” at weddings.
I know.
We sat down and created new marriage vows that, well, that “defied the cultural imperative,” as You might put it.
Yes, you did. I was very proud.
And as we were writing them, as we put the vows down on paper for the minister to read, I truly believe we were both in-spired.
Of course you were!
Do you mean—?
What do you think, I only come to you when you’re writing books?
Wow.
Yes, wow.
So why don’t you put those marriage vows here?
Huh?
Go ahead. You’ve got a copy of them. Put them right here.
Well, we didn’t create them to share with the world.
When this dialogue began, you didn’t think any of it would be shared with the world.
Go ahead. Put them in.
It’s just that I don’t want people to think that I’m saying, “We’ve written the Perfect Marriage Vows!”
All of a sudden you’re worried about what people will think?
C’mon. You know what I mean.
Look, no one says these are the ‘Perfect Marriage Vows.”
Well, okay.
They’re just the best anyone on your planet’s come up with so far.
Hey—!
Just kidding. Let’s lighten up here.
Go ahead. Put the vows in. I’ll take responsibility for them. And people will love them. It’ll give them an idea of what we’re talking about here. Why, you may even want to invite others to take these vows—which are not really “vows” at all, but Marriage Statements.
Well, okay. Here’s what Nancy and I said to each other when we got married . . . . . thanks to the “inspiration” we received:
Minister:
Neale and Nancy have not come here tonight to make a solemn promise or to exchange a sacred vow30.
Nancy and Neale have come here to make ~ their love for each other; to give noticement to their truth; to declare their choice to live and partner and grow together—out l0~d and in your presence, out 0f their desire that we will all come to feel a very real and intimate part 0f their decision, and th~5 make it even more powerful.

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誓言( vow的名词复数 ); 郑重宣布,许愿 | |
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vow
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unity
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covenants
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blasphemy
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bliss
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clergy
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psychiatrists
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